I'm interested in hearing about how everyone is fitting their photography practice into their regular life.
I can relate to your question. About 5 years after I fell in love with photography, I got married and took on a very active stepdaughter (I later legally adopted her). This was a significant life change, and coupled with a fairly demanding career, I found it difficult to spend time on photography. Now my daughter will soon graduate college, and things are easing up, but still a challenge. Some thoughts I can offer:
-Consider giving up processing film at home. I decided that I didn't have enough free hours in my life to process film and do printing, and I'd rather spend the time printing. I realize that some photographers consider this sacrilege, but if you find the right lab this can work just fine. Honestly, I've used a couple of labs that handle my film so well, I don't see how developing the film myself would be any better. Test a few labs, and pick one that gives you good results. This will save time and allow you to focus on printing. You can tailor the development when needed, just tell the lab "increase development time by 20%" etc. I've found better results with labs that do dip-and-dunk processing vs. machine processing.
-If it's too difficult to print during on weekdays due to time constraints, carve out time on one or two weekends a month. Give yourself time to get off the treadmill and immerse in some darkroom time. For many, it's theraputic, and an wonderful escape from our task-oriented lives.
-It certainly helps to have an understanding spouse/partner. If you explain that photography is your passion (more than just a hobby), hopefully he/she will understand and respect that you need some time to immerse in it. And they might appreciate seeing some nice prints coming out of your darkroom...
-Lastly, never give up! Even if there are fallow periods, you can always return to your passion. Life can get in the way, but know that your photography is always there, waiting for you. Take heart in knowing this.
Good luck!
Dale