In addition to being expensive, that kit includes items for making prints (such as trays) which, from your post, I don't think you need. Here's my suggestion of where to start:
Plastic tank with 2 adjustable reels for developing up to 2 35mm or 1 120 (see below)
Small "graduate" to measure up to 4 oz in 1/2 oz increments (to measure out chemicals)
16 oz measuring cup (to hold enough working solution to fill the tank)
Thermometer
4 "Bulldog" clips (
http://www.faqs.org/photo-dict/phrase/1689/bulldog-clips.html) to hold the film while drying; or something similar
Plastic or glass bottles to hold working solutions of chemistry (should be opaque or stored away from light)
For chemistry, start with a fairly mainstream developer (D76 or it's equivalent). You might find a liquid developer easier to work with. Use "one shot" (i.e. mix up enough working solution for the film you're developing and then toss that working solution after 1 use). I think you can avoid the stop bath and just use water unless you are working with slow development times (under 5 min). I think any fixer should be fine to start. And Photo-Flo.
Plastic reels are generally easier to load. Yes, they do need to be dry to load (which is why hair dryers were invented). Or you can buy a couple of extra reels. You may go to stainless eventually, but I'd stick with plastic for now.
All this can be found on Craigslist for pennies on the dollar if you're patient - or try a "wanted" ad. Best online source to get everything is Freestyle. But also consider a local store IF they have the expertise to show you how to load the reels, etc.