The erotic geometry
I disagree that pornography is simply something erotic that doesnt do it for me.
First of all, we should differentiate sex and eroticism. They are two circles that contain each others parts but do not necessarily become one and the same. Eroticism doesnt have to contain sex and sex doesnt have to contain eroticism. Eroticism is the mentality of the instinct and sex the physicality. Eroticism is the arousal of the sexual desire but going back to geometry, if you draw a line from the center of one circle to another, there are many points in that line that can be called erotic points. Some are closer to the sexual center, some to the erotic one. Simply that means that certain situations, acts, thoughts, feelings and so on are closer to the physicality of sex and some closer to the mentality of eroticism. The center of the sexual circle being of course the actual sexual intercourse and the center of eroticism is the sexual thought. You can also say that one center is our animal instinct and the other the human intellect. Or to be more physical, the brain and the genitals of the human being (with men of course its easier to just talk about the two heads, the upper and the lower). The sexual instinct of course does not reside in actuality in the genitals but it makes the geometric analogy even stronger: the further up an erotic point it is, close to the erotic center, the deeper rooted in the sexual thought but also further away from the lower center, the sexual physicality. Going upwards that is, the sexual act becomes more remote, more obscure, more mystical, more of a fantasy, less real, less physical, but more human, more personal, more private and deeper in thought. Going downwards, sexuality becomes more real, more public, more animalistic, more instinctual. In photographic terms, you could say that the picture has more light and more detail the further down you go. Like Ara said, thats why porn uses flood lights and eroticism candles. Photographically of course. After all you could have eroticism in the beach under a burning sun or in a pitch dark corner of an alley. I also believe that it doesnt matter what a human being dresses in, how much skin (s)he shows or whatever. A topless thong can be as much sensual as body suit, a turtleneck as sexual as a miniskirt. What it comes down to it, is attitude.
The above geometry is a general idea. But what interests us is the depiction of eroticism, the capture of sexual energy in a piece of paper (or screen for that matter), the reduction of the non-dimensional non-physical creation of the sexual instinct in a two dimensional, quite physical object. That applies to any art, but our focus is photography. We can use that geometry thought applied like this: one center becomes the in your face, heavy metal, floodlights, medical postures, common denominator, shallow extreme, the other, the intellectual, flowing water and birds singing, almost complete darkness, virginal innocence and shyness, deeply personal extreme. Both are extremes and both can be extremely boring or extremely exciting depending on your point of view. One is physical masturbation and the other mental masturbation. Or actual ****ing. But both are extremes and you have to be careful when you deal with extremes. The Marquis de Sade is an extreme that the friends of BDSM are inspired by but limit themselves to a personal border that is very much removed from the essence of his philosophy (BDSM is sexual not destructive). At the same time, the Romantics and all the works inspired by them are again extremes, to be enjoyed not to be followed. Both lead to destruction, death. Even your common pop love song talks about extremes that usually the police handles. But of course extremes arouse and excite but not reached and that not distance is the excitement.
- A hard porn photo has it all laid (not pun intended) before your eyes. Its all there in case you miss anything. The audience of porn dont want to miss a thing. They want to see -everything- in every detail. In that respect Ansel Adams Zone System landscapes are pornographic: they have all the detail and all the extreme drama of the porno scene. Nothing is hidden by shadows, furniture, posture and the actors scream their acting to the universe.
They say Look how I **** and how deep I can suck.
- A glamour porn is just a bit further down the road: it uses everything but hides a bit. Bukkake shots are not present in Hustler and the chicks of Penthouse may show every part of their body in close up, but hide some of the sexual act.
They say Look how sexy I am and how rosy it is
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- Glamour photos of lifestyle mags are just simply exhibitionistic. They dont need to show it all, just the big boobs and the lustful look. They continue though the drama that porn has. Chicks strive very hard to be sexual, to the point of often being comedic as their teachers are the hardcore porn stars. Its the easiest thing in the world to turn drama into comedy after all, or just simple boredom. Whoever gets swept by the drama of common sitcoms
please dont raise their hands.
They say look what a nice butt I have with that thong and I am your dancing club fantasy boy.
- Nudes, are simply that nudes. They should excite anyone who likes naked humans, that is most of us. After all apart from the excitement of seeing someone nekkid in this clothed world, apart from discovering that they are well formed, a nude is the essence of humanity, stripped of everything, down to the basic form, the uncovered instinct. Genitals are of course what usually one sees during the sexual act, so are breasts and the ass. The nude becomes a study only when it has something else to offer and only to those who can see it. Weston-Shmeston, the dude photographed like nekkid chicks, dude! So, a nude can be either sexual, or plain boring, or artistic. To be erotic
well, heres the point I am trying to make.
I will go back a bit to one word: attitude.
They say Look at a naked human.
Attitude is what starts it, what later becomes visual.
The attitude in those examples is what Ive written in they say phrases.
The erotic attitude is the thought of sex, without having to scream out loud SEX ****ING SEX, YEAH SEX!, or scream BIG BOOBS, YEAH SEX!, or scream NEKKID, NEKKID!. Eroticism might be loud like a spank with a wooden stick or a gspot orgasm but doesnt have to be. Eroticism whispers sex in dark and contrasty negatives, innocent models and creative close ups (had I hard time describing what I mean close ups exist in porn of course).
Eroticism, but to geometry, is above, a thought. And I agree that eroticism is very personal, it is. But porn can also be both mainstream and specialized. After all, not everybody enjoys or desires the same sexual acts. Water sports and electrocution is not for your average missionary housewife (even thought that certain last sexual thought is quite proper). Again, the difference is the attitude. There is a difference in an attitude of porn and of eroticism, even thought they might talk about the same acts and the same situations.
So, there I stand. It all begins with what the poet wanted to say. It doesnt matter if one jerks off with the shot of a vegetable or skips the big boobed Aphrodite with a yawn, what comes down to it, is what attitude the photographer approached the subject of sexuality with. How far did(s) he walk from one metaphorical circle to another, where did (s)he stop.
Some of the artistic photography that feature erotic elements are not erotic simply because eroticism was not the genuine feeling. It could a surrealistic metaphor, a visual philosophy, an innocent game, a show of technique, the display of a product, the exhibitionism of a model and so on. But is it truly sexy (in the actual meaning of the word, not the fashionable one)? Does the model say lets **** or is it look at me? Does the composition say sex or does it say philosophy. The philosophy in the bedroom of dear Marquis after all, is dully written philosophical treatise with some graphic sexual parts.
Ok, enough.
What this whole text say about me though is that I have too much sex and so I know so much about it or that I have very little so I have time to think about it.
But anyway writing about eroticism is like photographing it: an intellectual masturbation.