Well, there are often cultural differences between what is found hilarious and an outright insult. What the Brits find politely diplomatic, the Dutch find deceitful. And what the Dutch regard as honest, the Brits regard as rude. I don't think there is even a term for "tact" in Dutch. My sister, being married to a Dutch professor, sure learned that early on. Likewise, a lot of impatiently curt city dwellers can't appreciate all the story-telling that rural types often find the key to trust and socialization. I've had to live in the extremes of both worlds, so know the mantra. Blue collar settings survive on raw humor and practical jokes; and anyone too sensitive for that is not apt to last long. On this forum, we need to even accommodate "squares" concerning their own gear preferences.