Anytime I exercise my legal rights and somebody doesn't like it and kills me, I brought it on myself? Are you serious?
When that person specifically asks (by word or action) that they do not want you to do what you did, you are at least in part to blame, even though you are legally in the right.
Just think, what if the person you are photographing is in the witness protection program and may be killed if your photograph is posted online? What if the person is escaping an abusive spouse? What if...... who knows! Did you think about anything other than your "need" to get the photo?
Right, and that girl in the mini skirt who was raped, well, she was just begging for it.
If she dresses provocatively enough in the right place at the right time, she may indeed have contributed to the instance happening. Does that mean it is her "fault", no.
Also, I'd parse a complete lack of empathy for a victim of a crime as in fact not minding the crime, but I suppose if that is an important distinction for you in remaining above advocating the endorsement of violence, you can have it. It's a pretty sexy veil, as see through garments often are.
You may see it as an unimportant distinction, I do not. I do indeed mind the crime, and think the criminal should be punished. That however does not make me feel sorry for the person when they clearly helped to cause the problem to start with.
The analogy is flawed. A drunk driver who crashes and hurts himself does it to himself, as you say, and hopefully no one else.
A photographer assaulted for the perceived insult of photography is the victim of violence perpetrated from another human being, who is breaking the law, and assailing the legal rights of photographer. The active participation of the perpetrator of the crime against a person who has committed no crime nor created any danger to the subject removes any prior consideration of "insult". The photographer would not have brought it on himself, it would be wrought upon him by a criminal for a perceived slight. One can not give credence to every persons perception of what does or does not constitute an insult. The world would be paralyzed. I would certainly feel sorry for a person who was murdered for merely taking a picture, even if I didn't like them that much. It's called empathy. Serial killers, hyenas, and misogynists lack it.
One flaw in your logic is that photographing the person is only a "perceived" insult, when in fact the insult could not only be very real to the person, but also deadly under the right circumstances. You say that the photographer has created no danger for the subject, so you know for a fact that the subject is not hiding from an abusive spouse, in the witness protection program, or has no other reason to not want to be photographed? Even if they do not, crimes happen all the time for perceived slights, ignoring that and doing it anyway makes you partially responsible for the outcome.
No you can not give credence to everyone for what they may or may not perceive as an insult, however when specifically asked not to take their picture, you are forewarned right there! Why insult the person, make them mad, and even take the chance that they may do violence?
Allan