Filmbug: The good news is that your Diafine will probably work for several years, especially if kept cool. If it does start going bad, you will know it with reduced activity. It won't drop dead all of a sudden. Bath B is mostly sodium carbonate, plain old Arm & Hammer (in the US) washing soda. Diafine is a rare two bath that also has sodium sulfite in Bath B. I doubt if you would ever know it wasn't there. In other words, you can mix up fresh Bath B when it gets ugly by putting a teaspoon of carbonate per qt./l., it isn't critical.
You don't need to keep times equal in baths. In fact, a longer than necessary immersion in B will lead to increased grain and fog. Yes, you can get increased development and maybe better shadow detail with increased time in Bath A. It's a Phenidone-Hydroquinone developer w/o the alkali, but it is active at it's native pH. About 8.2 IIRC. If you increase the time in A, I would suggest keeping the B to three minutes.
Something I've discovered on my own and have never seen mentioned is what I call Film Reactivity, and subsequently, my FR Index, or FRI. All you have to do is look at film development times in D-76 or Xtol and you will see films running from five to eleven or more minutes. Obviously, a film with a high FRI will develop much fuirther along in Diafine Bath A, maybe even 60-80%, than one with a low FRI. IIRC, Acros, for instance uses five minutes or so.
Find your own bliss, the suggestions with Diafine are starting points. You can also use a higher temperature if it is more convenient; you may have to adjust Bath A time.