-Fixer (Any brand will do I'm guessing?)
Not necessarily. If you go buy in a brick and mortar store, you are more likely to find rapid fixers, with or without hardeners. Take a non-hardened fixer like the one sold by Ilford. Kodak makes three kinds of fixer: powder (it's not rapid, so don't bother using it with film), Kodafix (contains hardener, avoid for now), and a liquid kind that comes in A and B solution, one of which is the hardener. Don't use the hardener solution, and you're fine.
-Wash Aid (essential or not essential?)
Not essential. Useful, but not essential. As long as you stick to using fresh fixer and wash properly, you don't need wash aid.
-Some sort of tub to fill with water at desired temp to keep tank in during development (like a Bain Marie)
Kind of overkill. Your processing temperature will not change enough during the few minutes you agitate the developer to warrant temp control on the tank. On the other hand, if you plan to do C41 or E6 later, well, this could be an investment that will pay down the road.
Am I missing anything essential?
I am partial to Edwal's Hypo-Check or other similar solutions. It's a test solution you use to verify your fixer's strength. Put a few drops in fixer, and it will precipitates if your fixer is exhausted. It's useful when you are printing (put a few drops after every X prints to check), or when you reuse fixer.
Don't forget Photo-Flo and distilled water for the final rinse.
If you can have some humidity in the room where you dry film, it will help avoid curling (not the Canadian sport!). In the shower, for instance. You open up hot water for a minute or two to build up some humidity, then hang the film, and close the door. Your film will dry slowly. I leave mine overnight because I develop in the evening, but it takes only a few hours.