I have yet to see an example of objectionable bokeh.
It’s like discussing flavors of ice cream or the weather.
It’s not even the platitude “it’s subjective”, because at times it’s
all good with the right mindset and approach.
Even the super imposing mirror doughnut can look very appealing with the right kind of subject and/or approach.
Also of course the bokeh will often completely change character with distance, focus distance, aperture and even shutter speed with central shutters.
Look at the Japanese origin and etymology of the word for a real grokking and explanation of the term.
It’s origin is in the concept of “ma”/ 間
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ma_(negative_space) and in the use of manually graduated colour patches to woodblock prints.