Kino:
This is a good question, but may be difficult to deal with in this distance-based forum.
I have worked in a variety of darkrooms - from a dedicated darkroom in my family's basement, to school darkrooms, to newspaper darkrooms with a large number of photographers (many of whom drank a lot more whiskey than I ever will), to professional colour labs, to ...
Each situation required its own approach.
What always assisted me was a methodical approach, and keeping notes.
I like to combine visualization of the process, with the setup, cleanup, and shutdown procedures. Those procedures are usually done in the light, so you can see where things are, and where they go.
I try to orient those things that move in the same way each time.
Even where safelights are available, if you can develop a habitual procedure, you can work by touch, and by memory.
Do not despair if you have initial difficulties - just make sure that you learn from them.
If you run into problems, try to re-enact them in the light.
If you run into problems, experiment with different layouts and procedures. Don't follow slavishly the procedures of others. Try alternatives that may be better suited to you. As an example, if like me you are left handed, and receive advice from someone who is right handed, try working in the other direction.
Embrace patience - in general, once you develop your own routine, everything will proceed more smoothly.
Embrace flexibility - once you develop your own routine, don't be afraid to fine tune it or try something really different (just keep notes!).
You are just starting out - work slowly, observe carefully, and record those observations.
If you have a chance to work with someone else who has more experience, take advantage of that chance, but be careful to remain flexible and open-minded after.
Most important of all - have fun!!!!
Matt