I am not claiming that - read what I write.
And yes 120 film curves and if several lenses consequently focus slightly in front of the ground glass plane when set to infinity hard stop, I would trust the lenses, not the ground glass- at least until the opposite is proven.
But what you're describing, while theoretically wonderful, isn't how cameras with ground glasses work. The lens manufacturer would have to know what camera the lens was going onto, and exactly how much the film curves. A Graflex knob operated RH10 120 back has significantly more film curvature than a lever-operated Singer RH10 120 back. But both fit on the Mini Speed Graphic-- so which do you adjust the lens for?
A large-format camera (which is what the OP has, really) is even crazier-- sheet film doesn't curve, but 120 film can, so which do you design the lens for? No. The lens is designed to focus at a specific point, usually called the focal flange distance, and that does not take film into account-- it projects onto a film plane, and every camera I've heard of with a ground glass, the ground glass is set at that distance (well, the grain side is).
The OP should be able to look up the optical data for his lens, find the flange-focal-distance, or whatever Horseman calls it, and measure the distance from the flange of the lens to the ground glass, and determine whether infinity is set correctly-- but I have encountered multiple lenses that go slightly past the infinity mark.