I have a feeling that there will be no satisfactory answer but your own. I don't mean that I think you are being contrary, but that it is a fact of human nature, even if the humans involved are photographers, to have different tastes in such matters as gradations. It will generally be possible for you and me to make photos that have Zones II to VIII of the same subject but with everything between different, and for me to like mine better than yours and you to like yours better than mine.
The effect of a printing filter is not to counteract the effect of a pyrogallol or catechol stain. The MG filter is of constant density everywhere, whereas the stain in the negative is proportional in some way to the negative's silver density.
The effect of a VC filter will not be the same as using the corresponding graded paper, which responds to the color of the negative as if it were some added silver density, nor will either be the same as if a POP process had been used, which is intrinsically self-masking. The VC filter provides an exposure level in the projected image where the stain of the negative and the color of the filter may be thought of as being equal. On one side of that level the filter color begins to predominate while the negative color predominates on the other. While I can use this mental image to estimate quantitatively what may happen when I print a stained negative through a given VC filter, I have not figured out how to predict the effect from density measurements.
Suppose the image color to be yellow and proportional to the negative's silver density, and the filter to be blue. At some value of silver density, the projected image would be neutral. Densities below that, the blue would prevail and the image would be bluer as negative density decreased, thus making microcontrasts, at least, higher in shadows of the final print. The implication is that in order to produce the or nearly the same overall result from VC paper as from graded paper, one should choose a filter whose blue content is such as to cancel the yellow content of the highest negative density. The idea of a certain filter rendering the same contrast as a graded paper thus goes out the window when the negative is proportionally stained. I would expect the filter that would match a print made on grade 3 paper would produce a considerably higher contrast with an unstained negative.