Don't ask me why, it seems I see different things that the majority here and perhaps since I do not find anyone that I can agree with perhaps I should stop posting from now on.
I think several have made it clear that they respect your opinion; maybe they haven't been as verbose in doing so as the critics (including myself), but they're certainly there.
Whether or not people agree with you - does it matter, in the end? Ultimately, there's probably nobody who agrees entirely with anybody else on this planet. Look hard enough and there'll always be differences of opinion. For me, it's not a problem that you have an opinion, nor that it deviates from what you perceive as the 'average' opinion. As pointed out before, what I find problematic is voicing a private opinion in terms of 'good' and 'bad'. That ticks people off. You find yourself be ticked off as a result. That's your own (un)doing.
The topics you brought to the fore in this thread are interesting, but I think the overall exchange would be more pleasant (for you in the first place) if they were formulated in a more open, non-judgemental fashion.
"What is the role of color in relation to other aspects of photography, such as composition?"
"Can color be regarded as a part of composition, or are they conceptually distinct?"
"What does it mean if color is a dominant characteristic in a photograph; how does that affect the viewer/you?"
"If you remove color from a photograph that you like, would you still like it? How would it change the photograph and its impact?"
"To what extent and under which conditions is it possible for a B&W photograph to have the same impact on the viewer as a color photograph (or vice versa)?"
And if you're into the iffy business about why color photography took such a long time to become accepted in the arts, you could even ask questions about that.
Etc. etc. If you mean what you said in #1, i.e. that you're interested in hearing how other people think about these things, then perhaps just ask and see what comes up. Like I said, it's interesting stuff for sure. And in my experience, if questions are asked as I formulated them above, the discussion tends to start off at least (and perhaps even remain) very congenial, with the opportunity for everyone to voice their own opinions, however much distance there may be between those opinions.