Ventilation is always a good idea. What I'm worried about is an expanding cloud of butane - there is always explosive mixture on the edge of such a cloud until the whole thing is diluted enough.
Do you mean that the plastic bottle is contracting when closed tightly and left for a while?
If so, that could be for a number of reasons: Change in temperature, change in air pressure, air or butane dissolving in the liquid... If you blast enough gas into it to cool it down significantly, it will bulge as it warms up. That doesn't necessarily mean that the liquid isn't absorbing gas, though...
With the "whoosh" coming out of those refill bottles, it is difficult to get all of it to stay inside the "target" bottle. It is a lot easier with a slower rate, as from a lighter. See if you can find a cheap refillable - even a broken one which won't light. useful in a darkroom, useless to smokers
I'm probably a bit paranoid from working in the oil/gas industy for 13 years, but we take gas leaks very, very seriously here.
An "interesting" experiment to illustrate my point: Take a spray bottle of just about anything. Deodorant and hairspray are particularly impressive. Take it outside, bring a candle. Light candle. Spray just past the flame, being careful not to blow it out.
Then wait for eyebrows to regrow
