I'm not sure I understand why you asked this question. It seems to me that you have enough mastery of BTZS, the Zone System, metering techniques, etc. as well as proper equipment (e.g., densitometer) to be able to answer this yourself.
Anyway, back to the beginning: Film manufacturers determine ISO using rigorous and very controlled testing including exposure, development and sensitometry. An E.I. is a personal thing that deviates from this for one basic reason: to get the desired shadow detail. Finding your E.I. doesn't have to be as rigorous a process as ISO testing. Many of us end up tweaking our E.I. based simply on the old Kodak advice, "If your negatives are consistently too thin, give more exposure..."
So, if I were using an incident meter to determine my personal E.I., I would simply find a scene with both important shaded and lit subjects and with lighting I would call "normal" (you can use your incident meter to measure the difference between light and shade and use the BTZS formula to find the spread...). Then, I would meter the light falling on the shaded area (open sky or clouds or whatever) and base my exposure on that. I'd shoot an exposure at box speed and then one at 2/3 stop over and one at 1 1/3 stop over. I'd develop and print on my standard paper, making a Fred Picker "proper proof" and pick the one I liked best regarding shadow rendering. This would be my E.I. If the rendering I liked best fell between two of the prints made, I'd choose the 1/3-stop intermediate value as my E.I. Done and done.
Then, I'd keep careful field notes and adjust if necessary.
Best,
Doremus