I'll order from almost anyone but B&H. They aren't any closer or cheaper to me than Adorama/Calumet/Freestyle and I try to buy what I can locally.
The first week of December '03, I ordered a Toyo 45CX kit when it was on special for $969, listed as in-stock. It got delayed being shipped, then arrived in two parts, one on Christmas Eve, one the day before - body only and the holders, etc.. The lens was backordered for an unknown amount of time and I couldn't get in touch with their service department until after Christmas. I was hoping, given their reputation, that they'd make it good - find a suitable substitute lens (even if it cost more for me) or something. Unfortunately the customer service people were about as bad as I've encountered. No help at all, wouldn't even give me an idea when the lens might come in, what I could do about it, nothing.
It took a number of calls and e-mails through the first week of February to get them to send me a shipping label so I could get rid of the useless body and have my money back.
After all that, they tried to refund only the cost of the body, because I hadn't shipped the lens back to them. The lens that was still backordered. At least that one was a short fight.
More annoying than that was that in every phone call and e-mail I noted that the kit was still listed as in-stock online and nothing changed.