Ralph,
I've already expressed my pleasure in seeing you back on the forum in another thread, but let me just add again here, along with the others, that I'm glad to see you are back participating. I've missed your posts.
I wish you a speedy and complete recovery.
As for loading film on reels, two things come to mind. First, figuring out a way to deal with loading one-handed, as many have mentioned above, but perhaps someone in your area would be happy to trade personal instruction from you for a post as part-time assistant? I'm sure it would be worth it to them!
Just a thought.
And again, welcome back!
Doremus