I've been thinking about this and I've decided that the idea that 'art' cannot be 'porn' is a load of b******s![]()
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Cate
Cate-
I agree- look at that Caravaggio painting I posted to this thread. That's both. High art and not-so-subtle eroticism.
I've been thinking about this and I've decided that the idea that 'art' cannot be 'porn' is a load of b******s![]()
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Cate
Cate-
I agree- look at that Caravaggio painting I posted to this thread. That's both. High art and not-so-subtle eroticism.
'Porn' is lust without love, so I suppose you mean, is it possible for it to be art, and therefore w*****g on a higher plain?So what I'm saying is that even with lust and with porn, although reptilian in nature, there is still higher cerebral thought processes occurring during the viewing. I guess the question is are these thought process high enough to be given the label of art.
Carry on.
Michael
'Porn' is lust without love, so I suppose you mean, is it possible for it to be art, and therefore w*****g on a higher plain?
Cate
Exactly.
How may times have you been in a gallery and the person working there prattles on about this work "saying" this and that and you just walk away flashing the universal stroking gesture, rolling your eyes and shaking your head.
Distinguishing 'higher' from 'lower' pleasures has a long history, from early Hedonism, through JS Mill, to....BlanskyThe problem is that if pleasure is a good, then why are high brow pleasures somehow better? You can either hold that highbrow pleasures give more pleasure, better pleasure, or they entail another type of good that's not reducible to pleasure. Each of these options face rather considerable difficulties.
What if she was 18? Yeah I jump her. 16? Hmmm.. better not. 14? Damn. Whats wrong with me. 10?
This has long intrigued me. The pervert is the man who does NOT find a beautiful 14-year-old girl attractive. Or, alternatively, the pervert is the man who does find the beautiful 14-year-old girl attractive, but refuses to accept that no matter how beautiful she is, if you're over about 15, the only decent thing is to leave her alone, admire her from a distance, and either never let her know or (if you know her well enough, which has to be pretty well -- and includes knowing her parents well too), to say, "If I were 15 or 16, I'd fancy you something rotten."
Cheers,
R.
Actually, simply refrain from saying anything along those lines at all implying that you would find her attractive. No matter what, since nothing good would ever come of it.![]()
[...] At that point I see little harm in saying, "Oh, come off it, ___________. You're a very attractive girl. If I were 40 years younger I'd ask you out immediately."
Gosh Michael, this is a surprising turn for your studio business've always been fascinated with the time/age problem as well. I look at a naked beautiful 25 year old woman and lust after her. I'd ravage her in a heartbeat. Would I feel the same way if I saw the same woman and she was 60. Same woman. Different illusion. What if she was 18? Yeah I jump her. 16? Hmmm..
They get trickier as they ageThe other thing you said sounded like a dirty old man .. this sounds more like a mentor.
That's very different. The other thing you said sounded like a dirty old man .. this sounds more like a mentor.
[...] We can run on the elliptical machine and enjoy it without actually being pursued by a predator (not counting the predations of Father Time). [...]
However, Roger, I would counsel against any such comments, for your own sake. At 14 anyone over 20 might as well have false teeth, a bald head, stoop and deaf aid. The effect on the girl is I have to say (I remember one or two similar comments) most likely to be puke-inducing (using their sort of parlance), and the most harm is likely to be done to your pride (probably in your absence).
Cate
... some obvious and universal facts ...
1. All sex is pleasurable. (heterosexual, homosexual, monosexual, s&m)
However, Roger, I would counsel against any such comments, for your own sake. At 14 anyone over 20 might as well have false teeth, a bald head, stoop and deaf aid. The effect on the girl is I have to say (I remember one or two similar comments) most likely to be puke-inducing (using their sort of parlance), and the most harm is likely to be done to your pride (probably in your absence).
Cate
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