Why is it that this keeps returning to an either - or debate?
It is by no means a matter of you always can, or you always cannot. Not a matter of you never should, or you always should.
There are circumstances in which acting within certain bounds can be o.k. for one person, not for another.
Dealing with other people, interacting, you have to judge how the people you are interacting with are experiencing the interaction.
Everybody can be perfectly happy with what is happening, while other people, under the same circumstances feel uncomfortable.
That makes a difference. What the consequences are is up to judgement again: you need to evaluate the situation as you find it, as it unfolds.
One thing that could result is that you say that what you want is not worth what it does to other people. You could also find that there is no such obstacle, and you can snap away all you like.
The problem in this exchange of views is, in my view

, that very often extreme positions are taken, the heels get dug in, and only "we always can", "you never should" statements are put forward.
Views that recognize that the world is neither black nor white are snowed under
The law provides very little help in deciding what is right or what is wrong in everyday life, except in cases in which all subtlety is lost, and we really do not need a law text to know which is which.
And even if: keep in mind that the law alone is nothing. There is a reason why there are judges (and juries) as well.
Most rules we live by haven't made it to becoming law. And thank heavens for that! Yet they do make the difference between being a lout, or being a civilised member of society.
I have mentioned this example before: there is no law that says that we shouldn't fart in church. Very few of us will have trouble recognizing that you shouldn't, and most abide by that rule.
That is not the beginning of a totalitarian society. That is civilisation in action.
Now let's assume that we all agree that it is rude to fart in church. Why would it not be when you are a journalist, or an artist?
If people had come to see, hear and smell a petomane, it would be very different. But it's church, and people have come to do something else.
Also not the beginning of the end of the free world.
I find it completely unbelievable (in the literal sense of the word) that there are people who do not recognize that what is perfectly appropriate in one situation may be not so in another situation.
And when i say recognize, i mean that they too have a gut feeling that it might not be appropriate. Not just that they may have read somewhere and remembered that it would not be.
We
all have personal restrictions in whatever we do. Even those whose answer in this poll is that they do not.