When calibrating for any specific batch paper, I always start with a master negative, of a precisely exposed McBeth Color Checker chart, which includes a neutral gray scale all the way from white to black. These are much more precisely made than gray cards or DIY color patches. And by precise exposure, I mean under the exact K color temp lighting the color neg film itself is standardized to (with Kodak, this is 5500K daylight).
It helps to have a good color temp meter and a few cc filters. But if you don't, try to do it on a day with an even white natural "softbox" look, rather than an overcast day with bluish light, or in the shade under a deep blue sky. Then you just do experimental test strips or small prints, adjusting the colorhead, until the print matches as closely as possible the McBeth chart under the same viewing light (hopefully itself of high quality).
Color analyzers are not necessary. A good colorhead is. And those Kodak viewing filter sets can be handy for learning purposes, but realize that the cc values on those are rarely equivalent to the cc increments of colorheads themselves, nor are the response of the dyes in color paper completely linear. You have to fine tune everything by eye regardless, under a high quality viewing light. And then you only arrive at a starting point, since each shot you choose to print might differ somewhat in actual lighting and subject matter coloration, unless it was shot in a tightly-controlled studio environment.
No big deal. With a little experience, RA4 printing gets pretty easy. Just make certain your chemistry is fresh and used at consistent correct temperature.