I don't think that there is a medium format film camera that has similar autofocus performance as a DSLR. Before I bought the Mamiya 645 AFD3 in 2015, I also looked at other AF systems; Hasselblad H, Contax 645, Rollei 6008AF and Hy6. It was all "internet research" and no hands-on experience. Hasselblad already had True Focus in the H4X and up to deal with the focus & recompose problem. But other than that, it didn't seem to be any better than the Mamiya's AF. Contax was reported to be much slower and less accurate than Mamiya, I couldn't find much on the Rollei 6008AF and the Hy6 was definitely outside my price range. Of all systems, the Mamiya seemed the most attractive with decent AF performance and good range of more affordable lenses of good optical quality. I also preferred a focal plane shutter system (Contax & Mamiya).
If we look at the current medium format AF film cameras, I think there's only the Rollei Hy6 and the Hasselblad H6X. Phase One has abandoned film, there is no film back for the XF. From what I read on the web, the AF performance of the Rollei Hy6 and the Hasselblad H6X is still not on par with a DSLR. It is what it is. So make the AF work for you; accept that AF is slow, avoid fast moving subjects, stop down a bit to get more DoF or use manual zone focusing with a small aperture. I've successfully shot f/2.8 portraits, moving trains and a giant swing with the AFD3, see my pictures in the gallery here and on my website.
The AFDII and AFDIII have a focus confirmation led and two arrow leds at the bottom in the viewfinder. Those works with manual focus lenses as well.