I have largely fixed the issues encountered and here is what I did:
Used a laser alignment tool to get everything as perfect as possible. I discovered that bellos compression with shorter lenses (even with recessed boards) on the 10x8 enlarger causes a slight deviation from true zero which can be adjusted for. This only affects the lens stage and is a 1 minute adjustment fix with the laser tool I therefore set up for 120 and then re-do things if I am doing very big 35mm prints. For smaller prints it makes no difference.
I found the easel was partly the culprit. I main use a 2 blade photon beard and while the blades hold the paper dead flat, the frame is not perfeclty against the board/paper. This causes the paper to rise up slightly on the top left hand corner and to a lesser extent along the whole left edge, being more pronounced n the top left corner (because in the bottom left the blad pins the paper flat. No issue with small prints, but it does seem to matter when doing 18" prints if the paper is not naturally flat. This explains why I could not understand how I got such perfect corner to corner sharpness on some 19" 35mm prints yet could not repeat that with other prints at 17" off Ilford papers, or Efke. The it dawned on me; the Kentmere lies 100% dead flat and the ilford has a curve. Putting a sheet of each ino the easel and tapping around the edges revealed the kentmere remained flat no matter, but the Ilford rose up a couple of mm due to the easel issue explained. I resolved this by gluing some strips inside the frame of the easel that ensure the paper is pinned completely flat i.e. pressure all round every edgeof the paper.
Laser alignment. I now confirm everything is spot on from easel to neg to lens for important prints. It takes a few minutes only, but it does allow me to shim the easel to get it absolutely perfect and then check the lens is still perfect to the easel. The result has been consistently better corners, which combined with now flatter paper can be seen in the corners, esp the top left.
Stopping down. I have found that stopping down from f5.6 to f8 on my lens does improve corners a touch. When the neg density allows it, I do so.
So as with air crashes, there were a few factors at play:
1. Close but not absolutely perfect alignment (and no a spirit level is not always good enough when dealing with very largen prints off small negs)
2. Two blade easels might not keep the paper perfectly flat if the frame (which does not bend and hang flush as the blades do) is not making perfect contact.
3. Curvature of field is present at wider apertures and stopping down helps with this too.
So there you go. I got there in the end and I hope this is food for thought for anyone battling the same enemy!
PS Kentmere Fineprint is a truly superb paper. I hope when it is reforumlated by ilford it is just as fast as for dense 35mm negs being turned into big prints, it is a godsend.