1. Is there a permanent scratch filler?
I have an old bottle of Tetenal Repolisan (some kind of varnish). I would hesitate to use it, because any dust speck present when applied will be permanently trapped. I have achieved almost full removal of scratches on a badly damaged negative by some kind of DIY wet mounting: sandwiched between the two plates of a GEPE "glass" mount, with ethyl alcool.
Polish or clean the pressure plate? I have seen recommendations for using a rouge cloth, car polishing compound
IMO, you do not need to
polish (as if car paint) the pressure plate. In other words, the main goal is to remove little particles (rust, etc...) that
protrude from the plate. If in the process you create scratches, i.e. missing paint/metal with respect to the perfect surface, it does not impact the function of the pressure plate: the film will not be sucked into the small grooves! It is essential, however, that you do not
bend the pressure plate. Not even sure a small spot of missing paint is a problem: I've seen some cameras with a shiny, unpainted pressure plate.
I would use fine-grain abrasive paper (then very fine-grain) until your fingers feel a smooth surface. No need to go to such fine abrasives as rouge, (iron oxide) normally used at the final stage of lens fabrication.
If you feel the urge to re-paint the pressure plate, remember that the typical thickness of paint coat is approx 50µm; you need to preserve the large-scale flatness of the plate.