the spot meter gives me a high degree of control to achieve that. . . I have more control over my processes and materials since I have learned to use a spot meter effectively.
Dear Chuck,
Seconded, with a rider. Just as using ANY meter enables you to guess exposures better as you gain experience, so does using a spot meter help you to guess brightness ranges better, sooner.
This in turn means that with any reading, even incident, you learn how to 'fudge' the reading in order to get the result you want -- though of course, you can learn the same with any other meter over time.
I use a spot meter less than I used to, because I can get a lot closer than I used to with any meter I use, even an in-camera meter. For ultimate accuracy, though, I totally agree a spot meter is unbeatable.
Allegedly, AA himself said that when he got a spot meter, he found himself averaging a stop more exposure on the majority of his pics; but I cannot find the origin of that assertion.
Of course, all this is for negative only, where exposures are keyed to the shadows. For slides, where exposures are keyed to the highlights, incident ('artificial highlight') metering is usually (though not always) quicker and easier.
Cheers,
Roger