I will start by saying I am stating the obvious. Everyone's comments here are excellent.
Water softeners convert Calcium and Magnesium carbonate to sodium carbonate. As everyone here says use distilled, DI, or RO (I have a reverse osmosis system) for developers and rinses. When I make color chemistry I use RO for everything. Sodium carbonate can raise pH. Water softeners are essential for dishwashers and for laundry. One option is just to soften the hot water line.
I have a water softener, I turned it down to minimum level. It was set so high when I moved in the water was slippery. (Never let a guy that sells salt set your softener
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I wash all my films with tempered soft water with filters before the mixing valve.
For fiber base archival washer I have used the cold incoming hard water for years (I always use hypo clear agent). Most new homes don't run soft water to the sill taps for outside hoses.
When I lived in the country on a community well I could not dissolve XTOL in soft water impossible. It doesn't remove minerals it just converts them to a more soluble form.
I have saved water from my dehumidifier it essentially low grade distilled. Rain water would work.
I live in Iowa USA. We live on a ancient sea bed that is pure Limestone. About the hardest water around.
Best Regards to All, Mike