I used to use 2 coffee filters together and filter all my water that was used to mix chemicals or develop film. Worked great. Don't use anything for prints. Now I use a wash aid similar to photo flo for a 30 second soak, wash them in the sink, and spritz the negs w/ distilled water when they're hanging to dry.
If your film dries too fast, that's another problem, so I always run the shower for a while before hanging the film. Humidity is your friend w/ this. Prints are done exactly the same way, and hung by 1 corner in a humid bathroom.