is the waste in the fixer pretty much the same waste that is in there when making a paper or film (modern) print/negative?
I'd say so, yes. It'll be quite similar to used film fixer, I think. Most collodion recipes I've seen use quite a bit more bromide than iodide, BTW. I've experimented with it some time ago and found a ratio of 83% bromide and 17% iodide worked quite well, although most recipes call for more iodide than that. I found very little if any difference with a higher percentage of iodide in image characteristics when modifying the poe boy recipe than the indicated 17% - but with only 17% iodide I found there was virtually no precipitate in the collodion mix. But...that's a little off topic, sorry.
Edit: not only off-topic, my memory failed me as well. The formula I tried was in fact 17% bromide and 83% iodide. I checked my files and I noted a few formulas that I compared, at least on paper, and the bromide:iodide ratio varied from 33:67 to 52:48, but most are around 30-40% bromide and the remainder iodide. This is the molar ratio, so not the weight of bromide/iodide or their respective ions, but based on moles to get rid of the effects of variations in molar mass.