If you want a website where you have "custom wishes" like this, engage a webdesigner. If you dont feel you have the time to read up on the area yourself. Wedesigning is not wysiwyg even though many softwares keep telling us so.
Just to get small type to be readable and clear is a huge topic itself. After CS5 was launced I tried to make a few small micro-sites with Flash Catalyst. I designed the website in Photoshop or Illustrator with each transition in a separate layer. Then I opened it in Catalyst and defined menues and transistions. In Flash you can use all kinds of fonts from your system and scale them as you want, but it the results can quickly be unreadable in the final site. I wanted a modern look with small pixel-fonts. And these fonts come in sizes customized for a particular size. In a font family one can find fonts suitable for heghts of exactly 6, 8, 10 and 12 pixels. Any scaling of these fonts will look odd. A font customized for 6 pixels will look strange when stretched to 7.