Time for a quick work break.
John, I will vouch for the use of Magnesium Sulfate in distilled water. My method is to add 1 tsp of MgSO4 per US gallon of DW. There is very little swelling of the noodles. I haven't tried Calcium Sulfate since I don't have any but AFAIK it works just as well. My house has well water, but it is full of iron so I don't use it.
As far as measuring conductivity of the wash water is concerned, I started going down that path and then tried PE's advice of using a silver nitrate solution. OTOMH I forget the concentration. Anyway, after each wash cycle take 100ml or so of the discharge water and add 2 or 3 drops of silver nitrate. A cloud of silver halide should form. Continue washing until when adding the AgNO3 drops there is just the tiniest hint of a cloud left. For me, I find that this is usually about 8 cycles.
If you really want to try the conductivity route, a number I have seen repeated twice is 1800 x 10^-6 mho/cm. I cannot vouch for that specification, I simply have seen it repeated in two different, unrelated formulas.
-- Jason