Yes, I use both films extensively. My experiences are that Tri-X 320 has finer grain and builds up density faster than Tri-X 400. For high contrast or night scenes I always go with the Tri-X 400. Your description of the grain that you did not find attractive is kind of vague. You really should experiment with various developers but I can say that Tri-X 320 can be as fine or finer grained than T-Max 400...unless you are using Xtol where T-Max 400 has practically invisible grain.
