With infrared photography where the light source is a flash , you would normally put a filter on the flash , not the lens .
Assuming the flash doesn't have an infrared blocking coating on it otherwise you'll get nothing regardless .
Use something such as this ;
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You also say that by just using an IR pass filter on the lens you'll use the flash in NON-TTL, auto-exposure mode.
I've used the Rollei IR film quite a bit in 135 , 120 and 5x4 , metering off a weathered grey ( lump of rock etc ) I take a meter reading as ISO 6 .
If your not using a filter on the flash , does it have an ISO 6 setting ?
Otherwise the exposure will be off .
Putting a filter on the flash will reduce the flashes output and you can shoot as if it's regular film and rely on the flashes sensor .
For correct exposure like this , I treat it as ISO 320 film .
It also depends on what the reason is for flash photography in infrared is .
If it's nature photography or whatever else goes on in the dark , using a flash that can be seen scares wildlife away .
A flash that doesn't produce visible light , doesn't .
If it's static subjects your photographing in the dark , you could get some cheap infrared LED lamps , and illuminate with them .
A longer shutter time would be required .