I think your work is fine, viewed on my monitor, which I used the Windows 10 Monitor Calibration by Eyeball App to calibrate (I have an old Spyder, too, and the two are very close). Does your home process workflow use your C-41 "One-Shot", replenished or some combo of both? If so I would not overly concern myself with control strips, Control strips are best used daily, or more often in a production environment with large stable (HAH!) tanks of processing solutions. For the occasional user, one shot processing is much better (if your concern is quality rather than economy).
The following are some considerations you could use when designing your experiment into quality:
If, when you say "lab", you are talking about a custom aka production lab, by all means run your tests but look for real world tests, shoot outside at various times of day, and include gray cards, MacBeth Color Checkers, etc. in your tests. I don't think shooting targets on a monitor is structured enough.
And if you print get prints made from the lab roll and make your own prints from the home roll. If your desired end product is scans, have the lab scan the roll you send them, and then make your own scans from both the lab roll and home roll before you evaluate any scans.
But since what you are really testing is your ability to process C-41 vs. some very good lab it might be best to just evaluate the negatives. Look for physical issues. How were the negatives returned, sleeved, cut, spooled, etc. If the negatives were returned cut, how accurate was the cutting, if uncut were the negatives sleeved and put on a bobbin to protect them from the shippers or just stuffed in an envelope. Are the negatives clean, unscratched, no water drops, drip marks, or fingerprints?
Do you have a densitometer? Can you read the medium gray color channels on both films, can you compare shadow values and highlights and do some sort of rough calculation of contrast?