Next step
Dear Mr. Rat,
It seems you have the correct time for a minimum exposure for maximum black. I can certainly sympathize with you and your efforts. I was in the same boat just a year and a half ago. I work in a vacuum here, with one friend to bounce ideas off of about darkroom work.
The next step you have is to use this information to find out the correct printing time for a negative. The procedure you use will be the same, but you will be using a sheet or piece of exposed and developed film to find out the same information about the film's unexposed edge. Since the film acts as a sort of filter that lets less light through to the paper, you will be printing to find maximum black with respect to the film and its development. The time you have will be a bit longer, because film is never 100% clear. It stops a little light, but there will be the same result as you reach your goal. I use a sheet of film that is not exposed (but is normally developed) to find out the exposure for "film base plus fog." This is just a baseline for exposures, as each exposure will vary a tad around this value. More film exposure means a longer print time, less exposure can mean less print time.
Please know that everyone here is with you and wants your tests to be a success. Keep plugging away at it and it will begin to make sense. Sometimes we forget how much we have learned, and how difficult it is to pass this on with words.