I use a two filter in line system -- first is for sediments, the second is activated charcoal for taste, but I use it to remove chlorine and other minor impurities. Both together remove Iron, but I'm not sure how much, but I haven't seen any signs of iron stains on any of my materials. I do use deionised water to mix developer and fixer. Washing film and prints in unfiltered water doesnt seem to present any problems- Adams and Weston, and their cronies, washed prints in streams. Use a wetting agent in the end, and you should be fine.
Rick