I haven't used much (any?) 800 speed films. I recently bought some Superia 1600 and find it to be a remarkable film, for what it is. Yes it has grain, but this is 2007. The grain is better than 400 speed films from the 70's & 80's (by comparison) but it's there.
But, um, who cares? You're recording a piece of personal history. If you can see the faces and expressions, will you throw your images away in disgust if you can't see the eyelashes?
Also keep in mind, you'll need an 80a blue filter, most likely, so your film speed automatically loses one stop. Unless of course you can print them or scan them yourself and do color correction, or can get them printed at your lab with proper color correction.