FWIW, I usually TTL meter through the filter (a Hoya R72). I've had success with MACO, HIE and EIR.
I have also tried metering through the filter, using an external meter (Sekonic L308B and Gossen luna-pro) This works too.
Bracketing is a must.
I've attached a quick illustration of what different filters do to IR film - primarialy to demo the wood effect, but interesting nonetheless. I adjusted the exposure to whatever the TTL meter read for each filter
The order is no filter, Yellow, Orange, Red, R72