David,
Congratulations on your new Spottie. From your description you evidently do have an early model (look forward to seeing some pics. of it) but exactly how early is not so easy to say since during the early part of its production run the Spotmatic seems to have been in a state of near continuous development. Quite a few minor features and construction details changed between the camera's launch in the latter half of 1964 and the formal change of its Asahi product number from 231 to 23102 - which I believe happened sometime in 1966. The great majority of Spotmatic SP cameras (by which I mean the original Spotmatic, not including the Spotmatic II, Spotmatic F, SP 500, SP 1000, SL, ES etc.) are the later 23102 variant.
To know whether yours is the 1964 absolute first production model it would need to have a few other characteristics besides those you've already mentioned. If present, these would separate it not only from the 23102 version but from slightly later "early" 231 type Spotmatics from 1965-66.
The lens mount would need to be attached to the front standard by four screws. The internal construction of the film speed sub-dial would need to be different from all later Spotmatics and their K series descendants. Hard to explain, but the actual dial is attached to the top of a sort of tube with three vertical slots cut out from it, the tube sitting with the coil spring inside it within the shutter speed dial. The three slots engage with tabs on the internal base of the speed dial. The trick for reassembling it is that the slots are at irregular intervals and you can only fit the dial back together properly one way, when the right slots are aligned with the right tabs. The most significant difference though is the film speed range, which on the very earliest Spotties was 10-800 ASA rather than 20-1600 ASA.
These features I believe describe the Spotmatic as it was in October 1964 when an American called Fred Springer-Miller got his hands on one and tried it out at the Tokyo Olympics. His initial impression of the new camera (not a full test report) was published the following spring in Popular Photography when the camera was about to make its international export debut. You can download a copy of the article here:
http://petapixel.com/2013/10/06/blast-past-pentax-spotmatic-review-1965/
The Spotmatic had already started to evolve by early 1965 and (while any early Spottie is comparatively uncommon) you will look long and hard for one with the early film speed range and dial. I got lucky and scored one from Japan on ebay a few months ago. It was sold for spares or repairs and was a wreck mechanically (far, far beyond my level of skill to put right) so it's taken a professional CLA to bring it back to life. Fortunately I was able to afford the expense and for me reviving an original 1964 Spottie seemed a fitting way to mark the 50th birthday of an iconic piece of equipment for which I have immense respect and admiration (and I say this as someone who wasn't even alive in 1964). Unfortunately it didn't come with a lens. The ultimate would have been a matching 8 element Super Takumar 50/1.4, but never mind.
To answer your other question, the exposed return spring under the frame counter dial seems to have disappeared around the time they changed over to the 23102 model. The earlier arrangement with the spring right under the counter dial needed a visibly taller cover for the counter dial and this makes cameras equipped with it quite easy to identify. I can relate to your experience trying to reassemble the darned fiddly thing. Probably quite a few got swapped for the later type during service over the decades.
I think the changes that Asahi made from the early to the later Spotmatic were for the best. Even if you have small fingers, the wide meter switch is much easier to use. It's good to have the early version of the camera though and it's no small tribute to the Spotmatic concept, its ergonomics and excellent engineering, that 50 years on anybody even cares about the small stuff.