I read part of the thread, but I haven't read the whole thing. How important is it to you to be able to mount in the accessory shoe? Also, how important is it to you that the meter be small? How important is it to you that it be cheap?
The following solution might be a good solution in some respects: An inexpensive used digital SLR with an inexpensive zoom lens. It can be a very old-generation model.
It would be an incredibly versatile choice because you can do a test shot of the scene and then look at the histogram after the shot. If it has a nice intensity distribution in the histogram then you can figure that the exposure parameters from the digital shot are likely pretty good for a film shot.
You can set the digital camera to various program modes (shutter priority, aperture priority, full auto, etc.) meter. That can be convenient if you want to, for example, take the shot at a certain shutter speed or aperture setting. If you don't want to worry about the histogram information you don't even have to take a shot. Just push the shutter of your digital SLR partway down and see what the exposure readout is. Then use it for your RB67 shot.
You also have a wide choice of metering modes, e.g. averaging, matrix, semi-spot, etc., and this is further enhanced because you can zoom and meter the important part of the scene with your zoom lens if you want.
The main downside of this method is that most digital SLRs do not have a great choice of iso settings, which can be a big deal if you are shooting with film with an iso that doesn't correspond with any iso in your digital SLR, such as 125, 160, 320, etc.
Note added later: I see that Paul Howell and Alan Klein already gave an answers similar to mine. However, just consider mine to be a second vote for that method, with some additional information added.