great experiment
I too like fiddling with long expired materials.
Not sure of the effect of too long a developer for too red. I know that when printing RA-4 exposure has the greatest bearing on red, but it isn't a reversed process.
The too dark when dry suggests fog. I believe fog will build with development and be present in both the first and cd.
Too dark suggests try longer first developer. If that is to no avail - perhaps a flash exposure after or before the camera exposure, like one does with lithographic film, to get the exposed image up off of the toe of the exposure HD curve and above the fog. That should give you a thinner positive in the end, because more of the image will be above the fog after the fist developer, and hence the first developer induced fog will be bleached away.
As to controlling fog brought up by the action of the CD - that one is beyond me.
As to disposal - first and cd - oxidize them by tossing air into the solution though a fish tank bubble stone until they are black - this will cut their BOD- which will otherwise potentially mess with you septic microbes, then neutralize with citric acid/ or weak acetic acid etc to get the solution from alkaline (CD usually quite alkaline) down to a more neutral pH.
A poor test for when a solution is no longer alkaline is when it stops feeling 'slippery' when fingers are rubbed together in it. With the old developing agents, in the CD particularly, i would not recommend this as the testing means.
As to the bleach, I would recommend sending it to HHW depot. I sometimes dehydrate mine in a stainless steel tray left out in the garage, and scrape the mist wetted residue into a small jar and turn it in that way. I do the same thing for fixers.