Hi,
how good an idea is to shoot some kind of b/w pattern, also with a bunch of greys, to check if my lab is processing film right? and where to find such a pattern?
There are calibrated grey scales that you can use. Photowand sells them. Don't know a European dealer, but the are at phone number 04247-1521 in Sudwalde, Germany. Kodak also grey scales them in a couple of sizes. Gretag-MacBeth also sells a color chart with a grey scale, but it's relatively expensive.
A decent substitute, but not calibrated, would be a grey scale made from paint "chips", sample cards that show paint colors, available in neutral tones. If all you need to do is check that film is being developed to consistent and useful contrast, you could use them for that. If you can print the negatives yourself, even better, as you could establish whether different films are developed by the lab to consistently fit your printing paper with similar scales using similar contrast. If the grey scale on one film fits the paper with grade 2 settings and other films need grade 0 or grade 4 to print well, then the lab is not giving you your money's worth.
Another target to use would be to a long board painted white. You light it from one end in a dark room, and get a continuous grey scale as the light falls off along the length of the board. A meter used close up or in spot mode will tell you where the reflectance hits one stop or half-stop steps along the board, which you can mark. If you use the same setup each time, including the same light in the same position relative to the board, you results should be reasonably consistent. Again printing this will tell you a lot about the negatives.
If the lab is printing, they can make adjustments to contrast in doing so, and unless you tell them to print everything at the same contrast grade, their prints may not tell you a lot. Many labs now use scan and print machines, where the film is scanned, digitally "corrected", and then printed on paper. That kind of print won't tell you much at all about the negatives.
None of this is critically calibrated, but it will let you know if the films are being developed to a consistent contrast, which seems to be your main concern.
Lee