My L-358 was spot on accurate for the five years I used it. Of course, I didn't just meter only a general reading. I always took multiple readings and figured where I wanted the differing luminances in the subject to fall. But I was able to use the Sekonic with a great amount of success.
As to reflected light v. incident light meters. I would rather have a reflected light meter because the camera is going to record reflected light. Incident light readings would come in handy when calculating the light source falling on the subject and has its applications. But, generally, reflected light meters are more applicable in general photography (your cameras have reflected light meters after all).
I would test the meter and the cameras. Stand before a single luminance subject such as a flat wall with equal illumination and close enough to maintain equal luminance in your subject but not so close as to cast a shadow in the area you are measuring thus throwing off your readings. This should provide similar readings with your various units of equipment. Doing this on multiple such subjects will also indicate any discrepancies that may exist. Good luck.