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Regarding print development time, I generally look at what the paper and developer manufacturers recommend, and if there is a range, I aim for the long end of the range.
That way if you are slightly inconsistent, or if you have longer printing sessions, any variability in the end result will be minimized.
It would be worthwhile for you to try a little experiment, which will use up a small amount of paper.
Do tests using the longer development time I just mentioned - until you get a result that seems reasonable. Then, using the exposure time you've arrived at, expose three - five small pieces (e.g. 1/5 of an 8x10 sheet?) of paper to the same segment of the image, using that exposure time.
Now put all those pieces into your developing tray and start them developing.
From then on, you will start pulling the pieces out of the developer and putting them into the stop, one at a time, over a range of times.
The time progression should be based on that longer recommended time - something like 2/3, 85%, the time, 120% and 150% of the time.
Then fix, wash and dry the results.
This will permit you to
see the effect of variation of development time, and should help you understand better how things work.
You may be surprised at how little difference you will see between the last two times.