While I'll use the DSLR in the studio with complex lighting setups for medium format (same as polaroid back in the day), I'm generally much happier with a flash meter for faster situations. You can do some tests with a flash meter and a DSLR to get a feel for how the reading connects to what you want to see, but the meter makes for a smaller kit. Though optimally, you want someone holding it in the subject area. I use the Sekonic which can be wired or will sense the flash pulse. Depends on the situation of course.
BTW, I had a commercial client ask me to shoot an event a while back. I'm not an events guy, but they paid my studio rate, and they're a great client (and i got to have lunch with Tom Felicia, really sweet guy). The night before the event, I was packing and found my Nikon DSLR had died - the only digital I own with a TTL external flash. But I have a Samsung Mirrorless (NX1) that's my primary video camera (killer 4K and takes my Nikkor lenses). I had an "aha!" moment, and dug out my ancient Vivitar 285. Did some quick tests, and the exposures looked as good as TTL, took it to the event and the shots were great (Samsung's try at a pro-camera was a financial failure, but a freaking epic technological success - amazing camera). All this to say, a decent auto-thyristor flash can be a great tool for any non-TTL shooting. And the Viv is like $20 these days.