Many thanks for all the suggestions! Oddly enough, though, some of the above don't seem to be available in Europe. (I have looked on Amazon UK) For example, it seems I would have to get the Manfrotto 367, the Kupo or the Matthews Maxi Kit Steel Stand shipped from the US which is almost prohibitively expensive in postage and customs duties.
There may, of course, be camera dealers in Europe who import them, or I could get similar models from the same manufacturers. I actually called a big camera dealer here in Brussels to ask about the Manfrotto 367, which seems like a good solution (as does, by the way, their hook pin), but the answer was that it is a discontinued model. Instead, they recommended the Manfrotto 5001B, which is a lot smaller than the 367, so not very useful advice IMO.
As a start, I will make a trip to a local second-hand camera dealer and see if he has anything I can use. I will definitely try to avoid "compact, light and mini"
Thanks again for all the comments.
Regards,
Peter