Max, in macrophotography or any other work in which extremely-low light or narrow-aperture issues arise, most of focusing-aid devices become unuseful (microprism and split image turn totally black, the fresnel lens appears as a confusing pattern, ground glass is too dark to see anything, etc.).
In these cases, special screens like the said "cross hair" may be useful to get precise focusing. These screens have a central circular portion which is completely transparent (that is "not ground"), except for a very thin "cross" drawn in the center. The subject is in focus when you see "focused" both the cross and the aerial image passing through the transparent area, as if they were somewhat "superimposed" in space.
As you can guess, using cross-hair focusing glass is somewhat tricky and requires experience, but is the ultimate solution when everything else fails.