OK it seems from your posts it is only this lens that does this, not your other lenses, that eliminates the body. So.....
It can be a few things happening... it can be the MLU lever hanging it up but that would happen off camera as well. It can be the pins that register with the body mount are worn or out of alignment, slipping out of the body holes or not cocking properly (rotation is too short, not locking the shutter)... OR perhaps the locking ring is not tightening down the lens far enough. You say there is no wiggle in the lens barrel, no wiggle in the mount when it's on the body?
The lens just doesn't fire or do anything at all when it misses, anything happening when it misses? When you remove the lens after a missfire, do the pins sort of "snap" out of the holes?
Cock the lens on the body while watching the front of the lens till it missfires to see if it actually cocks before missfires, watch from inside the camera with the back off to see exactly what's going on as well?
How handy are you? Are you considering doing your own repair or want to send it out?
e-mail me, we can talk off line alot faster that way? I only drop by here only a couple times a week but do my mail everyday.