Perhaps the best way to show your true colors is to post, rather anonymously, like on this forum, and feel free to say what you want, regardless of the feeling involved. Some think such is funny, but some are above thinking so and see such rancor only as weakness and inability to deal with life's frustrations in a more positive way.
Trash me also, if such makes you feel better. I have been used to such immaturity since 1956 entering first grade and being queer. As for myself, even detractors have something to say and if I ever start bending downward just to show you how low I can go that is time enough to call me a true 'failure'.
We all contribute in some maligned, refined or essentially esoteric way. Let's be 'above' such desultory nonsense. - David Lyga