Ideally your black and white film scans should end up in a single channel, so there will be no color to them at all (but brightness info). You can set that in the Epson Scan software. I don't know how Elements works, but you should be able to change the mode to grayscale. Or at least desaturate them. I pulled your image down and it's perfectly neutral. Every sample has all three color channels having the same value. So it looks like you did everything correctly. So the problem is in your display. Have you profiled your monitor? The image looks neutral on Flickr too, on my calibrated display.
The film base will not effect the wet printing enough to notice. I haven't used diafine in ages, but it had a neutral base if I recall. Either way it's only going to be a minor and global contrast change. In other words not something to worry about.
I've never tried pushing Portra 400, so no idea how it will behave. But your TriX shot looks lovely to me. I wouldn't change the process if you can get a wet print as nice as your scan. Also, with Portra you won't get a black and white print at all, so that may be a strike against it.