There are two schools of thought... that is TWO, not one... about proper development.
To grain-a-phobic ( filter my bias if you wish ) photographers, who want ultimate sharpness and minimal grain, you give minimal exposure and sufficient development to print on Grade 3 paper. This is a hang-over theory from the days of Super XX, when grain really interfered with the image, and photojournalists preferred pushing Plus X to shooting Super XX. That was, oh, maybe 1949 or so.
The enlightened view is that we take 35mm into marginal light, split second, once in a lifetime situations and it is far better to give generous exposure and minimal development so that failures ( due to exposure ) are rare. With contemporary films, like the latest incarnation of Tri X, TMY and goodness gracious, TMX, every film and developer combination is fine grained, and the only inexcusable error is to miss the picture.
Comparing the results of the 2 schools of thought, a devoted grade 3 shooter can produce dazzling prints much of the time. Using this technique is like throwing darts and trying to hit the outer 1/8" of the board. A small error, and you're off the board.
The school of generous exposure holds that if you aim for the middle of the usable range of the negative, you have to screw up to a monumental level to approach a bad negative.
Using TMY with Xtol, it is child's play to make exhibition quality 16x20s that graitify tough clients. Even the much maligned combination of Tri X and Rodinal is 16x20 sized portraits if you've troubled to make an interesting portrait. Yes, you can see the grain if you look for it, and nobody but a pedigreed grain sniffer will ever look for it.
In short, if you get the adequate shadow detail for your pictures, and if you seldom lose an image to underexposure, you are giving the right exposure. If you find that you are split filtering, burning and dodging, maybe the development and exposure are not working together.
Finally, there are films that can either give long scale highlights or short scale, depending on the developer. If you use HC110 because it is some sort of cosmic bliss pot, but you are always burning in the hot highlights in the image, maybe you should switch to Xtol, because HC110 is meant to make highlights run brilliant, or hot. Xtol cools off highlights, on the other hand. If you are using Xtol, and always trying to put some zip into the brights, go to Aculux or Rodinal, or even HC110, which are progressive steps up the bright highlight ladder.
In other words, if the pictures you make suit you, you're there. Go shoot. If you're struggling, always adding some trick or method after the fact to salvage a picture, you're NOT there.
good luck, and remember... no densitometer.
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