Dust control in the darkroom is my number one weapon against spotting. I have filtered air intakes, clean regularly with mop and damp cloth, and try not to stir up dust for a long period of time before printing (this latter being more important than many realize; dust everywhere but on the negative is just fine with me!). Keeping the inside of the enlarger clean and dust-free is also important.
Spotting prevention starts when loading and processing film. Keeping dust off the film before loading and after processing is half the battle.
Forget your cotton gloves if they are leaving fibers on your negatives. Well-washed hands and handling the negative by the edges is better for dust.
I don't know about grounding the negative; I'll try touching them to something grounded in the future and see. What does work for me is my old Zerostat, a device designed to remove static from LP records. They come up used for sale from time to time. I use this for stubborn dust when it can't be removed with the blower.
I try to keep my negatives in clean storage for as long as possible. When printing, I take a neg out of its sleeve just prior to printing and place it in the negative holder. At this point, I don a pair of 4x reading glasses (better than a magnifying glass, since it keeps your hands free), and holding the negative in the holder at the glare angle to the light, I look for dust, first on the emulsion side, then on the other. I blow the dust off with a bulb blower. Stubborn specks get the Zerostat treatment and another blowing. If they remain, they are removed by a clean camel-hair brush or, in extreme cases, with a microfiber cloth that I keep for just that purpose. Don't brush unless absolutely necessary; your brush will often introduce more static and dust than it removes...
The neg then goes into the enlarger. With the enlarger light on, and my reading glasses on, I inspect the negative sitting in the enlarger. If there is any visible dust on the negative, I'll re-clean. Often, it takes two or three times doing this to get the negative clean enough. As I am working toward a fine print, I'll keep an eye out for dust on the test prints and re-clean the negative if needed so that the final prints are as spot-free as possible. Slow down and examine your prints carefully for spots while printing. Not noticing them till days later means that you are simply not paying as much attention as you need to during printing. Time spent cleaning the negative saves much more spotting time.
When placing paper under the enlarger, I tap it vertically on the easel once or twice to dislodge dust. I try to work with washed hands and lower arms, with sleeves rolled up so as to keep lint from my clothing from falling on the paper. I try hard not to lean over the paper to keep hair, etc. from falling on the paper before exposure (if something like this does happen, however, it is always easier to just make another print than to try to spot).
In spite of the above, I find that I need to do a bit of spotting on about 50% of my prints. Spotting small specks is not difficult; take the time to learn the technique with scrap prints (no stress about ruining a good print that way and you'll learn quickly). I've got good enough that I can spot out longitudinal scratches, areas of flare on the negative, etc. with enough time and patience. Embrace spotting and you'll find it one more very useful tool in the making of a fine photograph.
If you are placing your filter directly on the negative, or carrier glass, you need to be really careful that it is also dust free. A filter drawer farther from the negative is a better solution, as is using a dichro head or the like for filtration.
As for dry-mounting: I use Seal/Bienfang/D&K buffered "Archival Mount" (or whatever it's called now). It is a low-temperature, tissue that can be released with heat, allowing removal of the print from the board at a later time if needed. I have removed and remounted a print or two when the board was damaged or when I've made a positioning mistake when mounting. I find that option attractive.
Hope this helps,
Doremus