Unfortunately, I'm not on facebook, but paper negatives can be very beautiful in their own right. I think pre-flashing might help you gain some control over the contrast. A yellow filter can also be used with VC paper. My understanding from APUG member Ray Heath is that the yellow filter needs 1 stop more light when used indoors ( my experience is that it needs an extra 2 stops outdoors ). Also you can use a dilute paper developer and develop the paper longer. I don't use dektol any more, but when I did I liked to use it diluted 1+8, and I'd make that up from normal strength dektol that had been already used to make a few darkroom prints, and also let it sit ( in a bottle ) for a few days. Also if you have any trouble with development streaks, it can help to presoak the paper negative for at least 2 minutes before developing it ( try to lay the paper onto the water in one quick fluid motion, even water droplets can cause spots ).
Good luck and have fun!